Vision Boards – Powerful and Simplified

(Reprinted from PWACoach.com)

I am all about setting goals and developing plans to make them happen. My own personal strategic plan for 2013 is 41 pages long. OK – perhaps a bit overboard, but all set up in a nice binder, organized with tabs for each category – I love it and it’s already working beautifully.

What I have never been, however, is a vision board kind of gal. I’ve always thought they were difficult to create. Gathering all of the supplies – cardboard (big enough to hold all my dreams, but not too big that I couldn’t keep it someplace where I could see it), glue (messy), magazines (enough of them to make sure that all of my dreams were covered) – then taking the time to dig through all of those magazines, hoping to find great, representative pictures, and arranging them in an attractive way – when I don’t feel that I am a very visually-artistic person to begin with. It just never felt like my “thing”.

Until this year.

This year, I wanted a visual representation to go with my personal strategic plan. I’ve been reading (actually re-reading for the third time) Jack Canfield’s The Success Principles and have been determined to implement as many of the principles as possible into my professional and personal life. There it was – Principle 11, page 88 – “Vision Boards and Goal Books Made Their Dreams Come True”. I had the goal book. Time to make the vision board. My way.

The “Connie Whitesell” Vision Board Process:

Supplies needed:

One framed bulletin board (Much more attractive and long-lasting than cardboard and easily obtainable from any office supply store)
A set of attractive thumbtacks (more versatile than tape or glue)
Scissors
A computer with Internet access
A color printer loaded with high-quality paper

Time required:            Less than 1 hour

Process:

  • Find photos/drawings/pictures online using a search engine that provides an “images” option.

You probably already have an idea in your head of the pictures or types of pictures you are looking for. I knew I wanted to go on a trip in an RV this year (which may be problematic as an RV trip definitely would not be on my husband’s vision board – if he had one. I know the dogs would love it though! Another post for another day . . .), so I wanted one of my pictures to be of an RV in a gorgeous setting. I went to Google, typed in “RV vacation”, clicked on “Images” at the top of the page and, voila, screens and screens filled with images of RVs of all sizes and in all kinds of settings. You can see the one I selected in the lower right corner of the picture below. The interior shot is right above it. Oooh, can’t wait!

  • Locate your favorite images, print them, and cut them to size.
  • Attached the photos to the bulletin board. Move them around until you are happy with the collage. Leave them alone or shift them around again and again as the year progresses and your goals are achieved and/or change.
  • Put your vision board in a place where you will see it every day.  Not only do I have my vision board in my office, but I also took a photo of the board and put it on the cover of my 2013 Goal Binder and saved it as the opening photo on both my cell phone and tablet. I couldn’t get away from my dreams if I tried.

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“Life with Coach” Survey Results

The 2012 “Life with Coach” survey results are now available!

While there may not have been many surprises in the overall responses (life is better when the team wins and worse when it loses!), the true heart of this survey was in the meaningful and beautifully expressed feelings and generous guidance offered in response to the open-ended questions.  Responses like:

It’s the most wonderful experience when:

“My husband has been in the profession so long now that our former players are starting their own players.  I love spending time with these young men, their wives and loving up their kids!  It’s like being a Grandparent in a way!  I feel most proud when they call or text to share their accomplishments in life!”

It’s most overwhelming:

“I worry about losing seasons.  There is a constant concern about whether we are stable financially.  It has definitely helped me become independent.  There have been times where we have had to live in different states until I was  able to locate employment, often in positions that I would not prefer.” and

“About mid-February when you just feel like you want to have a date with your husband and you can’t because you don’t have an evening free (or at least before 9pm!) and it’s been 5 months since October 15th.  Also, holidays when all of your family is 1000 miles away and the team is travelling.”

I support myself by:

“I just make sure that I live my life.  I join gyms, hobby groups, churches, etc.  Basketball dictates a lot of what I do, but whatever time I have left, I try to make it my own.  I don’t want to live and die by my husband’s job because we already have one person in our family who has no choice but to do so.  It’s important to me to have things outside basketball.  It provides an outlet for me and for my husband because I make it a point to share with him the things I’m doing.  It gives him a chance to take interest in something besides basketball, if only for a moment.”

I am most effective at:

“I enjoy my career and thrive as an event planner.  I support my husband and his team 100% and get to know his kids very well – they know me as Mrs. Coach.  I hold my friendships and family relationships very near and dear.  I make sure all three of these things are a priority.”

I wish I could be more effective at:

“I wish I had more time to do ‘fun’ stuff with the kids, but solo parenting, while working full time is exhausting . . . “

Current subscribers and survey participants should already have received their copies of the survey report along with a bonus eBook, “Three Key Steps to Living A ‘Championship’ Life Year Round!”  For anyone else interested in receiving the complete survey results along with the bonus eBook, please subscribe on the top right side of this page.

This is a very compassionate (and passionate) group of individual and one of which I am proud to be a part.  Thank you to those who shared their thoughts and experiences.  Best of luck to all of your teams, except when they play mine!

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What a Difference a Year Makes –

It was one year ago yesterday that my husband was fired from his head men’s basketball coaching job.  I want to cry just thinking about the look he had on his face when he told me. Jim gave all he had to Loyola and his players there just as he had at Lewis University and Elmhurst College before that.  It wasn’t enough for Loyola and that day changed the course of our lives.  At the time, we thought for the worse.

Here we are a year later.  Jim has been an assistant coach at St. Louis University since last May.  He is healthy, happy, and caught up on sleep – three things he was not one year ago.  (OK – his hair is still gray) He is soaking up the experience of working for a basketball coaching legend.  We’ve settled into our beautiful 125 year old home (renting, as we still own and rent out a 125 year old home in Chicago.  We’re obsessed with old and unsellable evidently!) and community.  I’ve found I can work effectively, even 300 miles from my office, and, as I’ve gone on about ad nausea, I’ve a newfound passion for hiking in the beautiful state parks and conservation areas that surround us.

Exciting right now, is that we are in Columbus, Ohio with the SLU team getting ready for the first round (I know, I know – officially “Round 2”) of the NCAA tournament!  Here is the team “bus” we took to get here.

As my very wise friend, Jean, said the other day – “What a difference a year makes.”

Go Billikens!

 

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Join Me at the Final Four/NABC Convention in New Orleans, March 30, 2012!

Are you a basketball coach’s spouse/significant other attending the Final Four in New Orleans this year?  If so, be sure your husband purchases the NABC spouse package as there are several fun and inspiring events planned that weekend geared just for us!

It is my pleasure to join the NABC in inviting you to attend the NABC 2012 Spouse Meet and Greet Luncheon Reception on Friday, March 30th.  We will enjoy catching up with/meeting other coaches’ spouses and I will be giving a talk on making the most of this sometimes-crazy, often-wonderful, and certainly never-dull life of a coach’s wife!  (as well as discussing the responses to the “Life with Coach” Survey that many of you completed)

I have so enjoyed connecting virtually with many of you here and via social media and hope to see you live and in-person over the Final Four weekend.

~ Connie Whitesell

Where:
Hilton Riverside
2 Poydras Street
New Orleans, LA 70130
2nd Floor, Prince of Wales Room

When:
Friday, March 30, 2012
12:30pm to 2:00pm

 

 

 

 

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What is Your Personal Power Song?

Last night, I became completely sidetracked by this question while listening to an audio class by one of my favorite inspirational authors and coaches, Pamela Slim (Escape from Cubicle Nation).  Pam was discussing how helpful she found it to have a Personal Power Song for those times when that nagging voice of self-doubt popped up in her head.  Tina Turner songs provide the inspiration that shifts perspective for Pam back into an empowered state of mind.

What I thought would be a quick review of my playlist for my power song turned into an hour-long process for the creation of my Personal Power Playlist.  Here are a few of my favorites from the list.  Nothing can stop me after listening to these!

Jason Mraz: Freedom Song, Make it Mine, Live High

Sugarland: Settlin’ (as in “not”)

Third Day: This is Who I Am, Give Love

Zac Brown Band: Quiet Your Mind

Josh Gracin: I Want to Live

What songs fill you with feelings of inspiration, strength, and  “I Can Do Anything”-itiveness?

 

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“Life with Coach” Survey Winners!

The “Life with Coach” Survey is officially closed and I am pleased to report that close to 70 coaches’ spouses and partners participated and provided their heartfelt responses.   Thanks to all who participated for taking the time to complete the survey and to be so open about your experiences living this coaching lifestyle.

My favorite quote so far (after just a brief review): “My husband does basketball and I run everything else!”

I am excited to soon be sharing the results with all participants, but until the survey results have been compiled, I wanted to make sure to announce the lucky winners of the $50 Amazon.com gift cards.  (drum roll please . . . . . )  Congratulations to Christine Taylor and Ayesha Hall.   Happy shopping ladies!

Results of the survey will be discussed during the spouses program at the NABC Convention/Final Four in New Orleans and survey reports will be available on this site by the end of this month, so be sure to check back.

Thanks again Coaches’ Partners!!

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“Life with Coach” Survey

Calling All Athletic Coaches’ Spouses/Significant Others/Partners!

Please give a fellow coach’s wife a hand!  I am conducting a survey which I hope will get to the heart of being an athletic coach’s spouse (or significant other) – the rewards, challenges, times of overwhelm, and inspirations.

Purpose:

My intention is for these survey results to start some engaging conversations between coaches’ spouses/partners and to provide the opportunity for the sharing of helpful advice and ideas.

Survey results will be shared with participants directly, as well as through the places we’ve found to gather, even electronically, such as on MarriedToTheGame.net and through Facebook and Twitter.

Additionally, I will be conducting a presentation during the Spouses Program at the National Association of Basketball Coaches (NABC) Convention this March in New Orleans titled “Living a ‘Championship’ Life – Year Round” and would love to be able to tailor this talk as directly to the lives of the attendees as possible, but need your help to do so. I know what my experiences and those of my coaching-life friends and clients have been, but a broader perspective from more of you would be invaluable to me, to the presentation participants, and, hopefully, to all of you, once the results are in!

Who may participate?

This is not limited to just college basketball coaches’ spouses/partners! Spouses/significant others/partners (meaning in a long-term committed relationship) of collegiate and high school-level athletic coaches of any sport are invited to participate.

Deadline and Prizes!

This survey will be available to complete until Monday, March 5, 2012.

On that date, I will randomly select two participants who have completed the survey and provided their contact information to each receive an Amazon.com gift card/certificate in the amount of $50.00.

Sharing the survey:

As you can imagine, it is a little difficult to find you all – so please, forward this survey to any and all coaches’ spouses/partners you know.

Confidentiality:

Please be as forthcoming as possible.  Survey results will be shared in aggregate form only.  Do not have any concern that your responses will be identified with you individually.  I promise they will not.  Additional information regarding privacy and confidentiality is contained within the survey.

Let’s Begin!
Click here to begin the survey

Thank you very much for your participation!

Connie Whitesell
Coach’s Partner, Inc.
Please join me on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn by clicking the links to the right!

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5 Ways for Coaches’ Wives to Thrive In a New Town During Basketball Season

Here we go!  Yes, the season is in full swing and the SLU Billikens are off to a great start with a 14-4 record in the beginning of conference play.  I love our new city and school and find it jaw dropping to be experiencing near sell out crowds in a new 10,000 seat arena. (that serves beer/wine and toasted ravioli – gotta love a university in a beer town filled with authentic Italian restaurants!)  Oh, and it is January 16th in the Midwest and the temperature here at 8pm is 58 balmy degrees.

The only drawback is my missing husband! I figure that in this week, between away games and recruiting, I will have seen Jim awake for a whopping 6 hours.

Moving to a new city and leaving friends and family can be difficult.  Having your husband gone for prolonged periods during the season can make it more so.

Do I miss him terribly? Yes

Do the dogs and I do a crazy, happy dance when he walks in the door? Yes

Am I ever going to get help changing those too-high lightbulbs? Maybe, but Doubtful (and, given what happened in our last home – see April 20, 2011 blog post – probably not a good idea anyway)

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Here are my Top 5 suggestions for living happily in a new town – even with your coach-husband gone:

1. Get out and meet people.

(Let’s get the obvious out of the way first) I’m a pretty shy person naturally, but I knew that I had to purposefully put myself out there to make friends in my new town.  For many of you, that will happen through your involvement with your children’s school and other activities.  For me, I joined a local women’s business group and not only made business connections, but also walked away from almost every meeting with plans to meet at least one person for coffee or a glass of wine at a later date.  I’ve learned so much more about my new town as a result.

Join a neighborhood group and attend meetings.  This is a great way to meet your neighbors, feel a part of your community, and find out where to take your dry cleaning and order the best take-out.  I also have yet to attend a community meeting that hasn’t involved some controversy, which can be slightly entertaining in its own twisted way.   ;)

Until moving to St. Louis, I had never heard of a www.meetup.com.  Since moving, it’s been a salvation.  There are Meet-up groups throughout the States for almost every topic imaginable – book clubs, dining, running, children’s activities, cycling, meditating, you name it.  My favorites have turned out to be the Let’s Hike St. Louis, St. Louis Nature Lovers, and St. Louis Adventure Group Meet-ups.  I’ve hiked along all sorts of trails, come within steps of elk, deer, bison, and eagles (OK, not within steps of these), and am even going on an Owl Prowl during a winter night hike next week.  People in these groups are quite diverse – all ages, sizes, professions, and interests.  Some are married.  Some not.   Some bring their children.  Some bring dogs.  All have been enjoyable to meet.

2. Develop a home-based business.

If you have been thinking about ways to bring extra income into your home but have been hesitant because you don’t know how long your husband’s job will keep you in that location, there are many home-based income-generating avenues to explore.  I’ve been spending my extra alone time developing my business and life coaching practice, which takes place entirely over the phone.  Several of my clients are successful at-home entrepreneurs, offering a wide variety of products and services, including: creating gorgeous oil paintings and selling them online; writing music and providing singing/guitar lessons from home; selling jewelry at home parties; and developing an impressive income stream from blogging.

The greatest resource I have found for practical, relevant, and current advice on clarifying your best professional fit and starting a successful home-based business is a book (available in paper and electronically) called The Barefoot Executive, by Carrie Wilkerson.  Carrie also maintains a very active and insightful blog at www.blogbarefoot.com.  Anyone starting or wishing to grow an at-home business MUST get this book!

3. Invite guests to visit and be a tourist with them in your own town.

The Whitesell B&B (Well, just one “B” – my breakfasts are not renown) became quite active this fall and now that the season is in swing, home game weekends are filling up quickly!  My best girlfriend came down for a visit this weekend while Jim was gone and we made it two straight days of hiking, spa pampering, and great food and wine.

Not only is it fun to have quality time to catch up with friends and family, but these visits also provide the perfect excuse to plan an itinerary that includes restaurants, shows, wine/brewery/home tours, parks, and other attractions that you may not yet have explored.

4. Social media.

If it is difficult to physically meet new people in your area, share your experiences and thoughts online.  Anyone who is a coach’s wife who is not yet familiar with www.marriedtothegame.net – get your fingers typing on over there!  That’s where the women who can really relate to our experiences hang out and support one another.

Become active on sites such as Facebook to connect and share photos/stories with distant friends.

5. Volunteer.

Contact your local church or outreach center for opportunities to serve others.  Bring your children along for early lessons in the power of community and giving.  I signed on for one that provides blankets, coats, and rides to local shelters for the homeless when temperatures dip below 20 degrees (not realizing that this seems to rarely happen).

Bonus Suggestion: When coach-hubbie does get home, make sure he knows just how much you miss him!

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For those recently on the move, how are you finding enjoyment and fulfillment in your new location?

 

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Interesting Article about Employer Support for “Trailing” Spouses –

This article was provided in the November, 2011 issue of HR Magazine.  Sure hope colleges and universities are paying attention!

Easing the Travails of Trailing Spouses

Vol. 56     No. 11

Employers are shaping relocation packages to accommodate the needs of a trailing spouse or partner.

11/1/2011 By Theresa Minton-Eversole

According to the relocation trade association Worldwide ERC, approximately $25 billion is spent annually on corporate relocation. Add that figure to the average recruitment cost for many professional positions—two-and-a-half-times-salary—and business leaders face significant losses each time a relocated hire or transferred employee doesn’t work out.

Now they face another growing relocation dilemma: qualified workers who are reluctant to relocate in the first place. There are many reasons why relocation might not be an attractive option for an employee. One is the loss of the second income in a dual-income household. To counter this reluctance, some HR professionals are initiating programs that help trailing spouses or partners secure employment, too.

Fifty-six percent of the respondents to the Atlas Van Lines 2011 Corporate Relocation Survey reported that employees declined the opportunity to relocate in 2009; nearly one-third reported that the number of workers declining relocation in 2010 increased. The top reasons for such decisions: 77 percent cited housing or mortgage concerns. Fifty-one percent credited family issues and family ties.

Enter Trailing Spouses

Employment services for relocating spouses or partners may help convince a sought-after prospect to relocate. Competition is hot for all jobs in this stagnant labor market, but competition for top talent is even hotter.

In September, the Society for Human Resource Management’s Leading Indicators of National Employment report—the results of a survey of HR professionals at more than 1,000 U.S. companies—showed that recruiters continue to have trouble landing candidates for key positions.

Jennifer Schramm, GPHR, and SHRM’s manager of workplace trends and forecasting, summarizes the trend: “Despite the decline in the hiring outlook, HR professionals in both [manufacturing and service] sectors are reporting increased difficulty with recruiting candidates for their key vacancies. This suggests that despite the large number of unemployed job seekers, there are potentially growing shortages in certain kinds of high-skilled jobs.”

Forty percent of employers responding to the Atlas survey said the spouse’s employment almost always or frequently affects a candidate’s relocation decision. The same survey notes that about one-fifth of U.S. companies and one-third of companies with more than 5,000 employees currently offer outplacement help to spouses.

2009 U.S. 
Domestic Relocation 
Statistics 
$25 billion
Amount spent annually in the U.S. on corporate relocation. 
$16,110,641
Average annual amount each company spends to transfer employees. 
287,000
Annual number of U.S. domestic transfers from Worldwide ERC member companies. 
Of the 287,000:
Approximately one-third are new hires; two-thirds are current employees.
Approximately 50 percent own homes; 
50 percent rent.
Source: Worldwide ERC.

Today, about two-thirds of families with school-age children rely on dual incomes, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. That means when one spouse is offered a job requiring relocation, it’s often a mixed blessing. While the husband or wife might have an opportunity for a new position with higher pay, the so-called trailing spouse can be left jobless in an unfamiliar city, with no connections or prospects.

Tech Support

In an economy that remains tenuous, a candidate is more likely to reject an opportunity for fear that his or her partner won’t be able to find a job, said Sanjay Sathe, founder and chief executive officer of San Jose, Calif.-based RiseSmart, a provider of outplacement and recruitment solutions. In the tech-sector hub, “More employers are having a difficult time hiring their first choice for key positions, and as a result they are taking a closer look at their relocation packages.” Some offer outplacement assistance for spouses through RiseSmart’s Transition Concierge service.

Every week, users of the service receive hand-picked job leads. They can tap professional resume services, one-on-one coaching and a personal job portal.

The sooner both partners establish roots in their new community, Sathe adds, the more likely it is that the relocation will succeed and that the candidate will stay long term.

RiseSmart reports that applicants using Transition Concierge find new employment in an average of 18 weeks. This compares to a national average unemployment duration of more than 34 weeks, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics.

Regional Collaboration

Employers in lesser-known regions in the United States or those hard hit by the recession often have difficulty recruiting workers, so it’s important for employers in such regions to take a holistic approach to recruiting and relocating new hires or transferees.

Connect Sixty-Four is a collaborative effort among a number of Kalamazoo, Mich., organizations to build and strengthen the area’s professional talent pool. Through the commitment of business partners along the 64-mile stretch from St. Joseph to Battle Creek, trailing spouses get exclusive exposure to the area’s hiring agents as well as priority consideration for interviews. That commitment gives employers partnering with Connect Sixty-Four access to the area’s newest talent—and an edge in building sustainable recruitment programs.

Robyn Rosenthal, vice president of research and marketing for WSI Staffing & Recruitment Research in Kalamazoo, initiated the program in March to help employers attract and secure highly sought-after talent by helping spouses or partners find jobs.

“There is tremendous direct and indirect expense when companies recruit someone, from moving the family to lack of employee engagement due to worrying over other family issues,” says Rosenthal, who has been a trailing spouse. “Housing is the No. 1 reason why [the area’s] employers can’t get people to move here, followed by the need for a second income that the relocating family might not believe can be secured once they’ve moved.

Costs of U.S. Domestic Transfers 

Current employee homeowner $90,081

New-hire homeowner 69,020

Current employee renter 23,497

New-hire renter 20,168

Source: 2010 Worldwide ERC.

Recruiters and hiring agents trying to recruit out-of-area talent can offer Connect Sixty-Four as a relocation benefit to prospective employees, ensuring immediate career support for the spouse. Trailing spouses are assigned to a Connect Sixty-Four career consultant dedicated to identifying employment opportunities and facilitating job interviews, and with whom they can work with for at least six months. A spouse can begin his or her career search immediately, helping in the transition to the community. Or he or she might wait until after the move to begin the search.

Connect Sixty-Four also can be used as a retention tool; companies can extend the benefit to existing employees who are at risk of leaving because of a spouse’s lack of employment.

Bronson Healthcare Group benefits from Connect Sixty-Four. John Jones, Bronson’s senior vice president of regional and physician services, oversees operations and recruitment of staff for 250 of the organization’s providers.

In the face of a national shortage of certain types of physicians, “Most physicians have a lot of choices, so you have to have a very good health system,” Jones says, and other attractions, such as a positive employment philosophy and regional appeal.

“If you go out to recruit a specialist or a primary care physician and they have a trailing spouse, then you’re scrambling to find that spouse a job in order to get that recruit to come,” he added. “That’s where Connect Sixty-Four helps us.”

Because the program is so new, there are few employment matches to report. However, Jones knows someone about to receive a job offer; he expects there will be more matches.

“It takes a lot of time and effort to make these connections,” he admits. Connect Sixty-Four “is a feature to our recruitment package that saves us a lot of time and cost.”

Strategic Partnership

The U.S. military deals with a significant number of relocations each year; the past two years have been particularly challenging due to wartime deployments and the U.S. Defense Department’s Base Realignment and Closure initiative. The Employer Partnership of the Armed Forces program—free for employers and job seekers—provides employers access to the skilled and experienced workforce pool of military veterans, members of the Reserve and National Guard and their families.

“As we move our families and troops around, it’s important to give them all the support they need—and have earned—and to give them every opportunity to use their skills,” said Maj. Gen. Keith Thurgood, deputy chief of the U.S. Army Reserve. “This program helps us match [our families’] needs, skills and opportunities with the needs of the local community, and it gives employers a tenable way to support our troops and their families while at the same time strengthening America’s economy.”

The program has more than 2,000 employer partners, including large and small national companies; federal, state and local agencies; and trade organizations. In September 2010, the partnership launched an online career portal tailored for the military community and often characterized as a “Monster.com for the military.” The resume builder provides a military occupation translator and menus for entering military experience. Job seekers—including trailing spouses and dependents—can use key word searches to find positions they are interested in, while employers can search the database for candidates.

In addition, the online service is supported by a network of program managers who have military and industry experience. The relationships they build with the hiring managers of employer partners allow them to match candidate skills with opportunities.

Through strategic partnerships, the portal accesses about 700,000 jobs at any given time. More than 30,000 members of the Reserve components, family members and veterans have registered to take advantage of the portal since its launch.

The U.S. military considers itself a trendsetter in providing such outplacement services as those for trailing spouses. And experts agree that the private sector must adopt a similar holistic view of relocation.

With relocation and turnover costs as high as they are, companies need to do whatever they can to assimilate relocating families, Rosenthal says. “Anyone who has experienced this type of move can understand the need for this type of benefit. When organizations offer these kinds of programs, they are telling their recruits and employees that not only are they important to the company, their family is, too. And you can’t put a dollar value on that.”

 

 

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My Sign

I received absolute confirmation this weekend that we are on the right path with Jim’s new coaching job and our move to St. Louis.

For some reason, since moving to St. Louis a month and a half ago (yea!! I finally did make it), I’ve found a passion for hiking.  Every weekend I find a new trail to explore, drag Jim, a friend, and/or the dogs with me, and enjoy a few hours of exercise, peace, and gorgeous scenery.   I am amazed both that such beauty exists within 30 minutes of our new home and that the weather is consistently phenomenal here.  (Jim – Heaven is no longer Iowa, it’s Missouri, at least for now)

The leaves are changing and I was jolted when I came to the realization on Saturday’s hike that I was actually “in” the picture that is the header at the top of my website, down to the colors, the leaf strewn path and the water to my left (but minus the man in the photo as Jim’s practice season officially began the day before :) )  I selected that photo header in the dead of a Chicago winter when there wasn’t a hint of vibrant nature color in sight.   I stopped to drink in the sight, felt a wave of gratitude for my “sign”, and then cursed myself for forgetting my camera!

I hope the other coaches’ partners out there who also have gone through a recent coaching transition are experiencing similar moments of validation and appreciation for their new adventure -

Here are some photos from a few of the other hikes and of our neighborhood park.  I’m telling you – heaven!

 

 

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